It’s Not Talked About

According to UNAIDS, approximately 6.3 million South Africans are living with HIV/AIDS. Unfortunately, South Africa ranks highest amongst countries worldwide with HIV/AIDS rates. This being said, HIV/AIDS is a topic of focus on many PCVs’ minds when planning projects and empowering others through educational programs. Although many PCVs do great work with educating and supporting those affected by HIV/AIDS, many communities avoid such programs because they don’t want to be belittled as a person living with HIV/AIDS. There are a lot a stigmas that are attached to living with HIV/AIDS world wide, but in the South African culture, especially in rural settings, many people would prefer to not know their status rather than know and face others finding out. It’s a sad reality, because instead of getting treatment and medication to help them live a strong, long, and healthy life, they’d rather hide.

A fellow PCV in my cohort had her learners write a poem about how they were feeling that morning. In a learner’s poem below, you can see a unfortunate example of the treatment others may receive once knowing their HIV/AIDS status.

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“Best Friends” I like it before you knew We were buddies We hugged and kissed We share[d] pizza We swam together But it has all changed now, Now that you know I had it long before you knew and we were so close, and now You can’t [bare] to look at me anymore

IsiZulu vs. White Wedding

Seeing two slaughtered cows, barrels of home brewed Zulu beer (called utshwala), and many people dressed their best, one knows love is in the air! This past week, I was invited to a Zulu wedding. I had great experiences and was able to learn more about the IsiZulu culture as I immersed myself amongst the other guests. The wedding was two days and did include slaughtering cows in order to send greetings and thanks to the families’ ancestors (there was one cow for each family).

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The cow has been slaughtered and the men are quickly cutting the pieces of meat and the women are waiting to begin cooking.

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Preparing the meat. The meat is divided according to gender. For example, I learned that the men eat the meat from head and the females eat the stomach of the cows.

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Barrels of utshwala are brewing to be enjoyed during the wedding reception.

On the first day, we celebrated a wedding where the bride was in a beautiful white dress, the groomsman wore a sharp tuxedo, there was a colorfully dressed wedding party, and a pastor from the couple’s church performed the wedding ceremony. A classy dinner reception followed with many toasts to the newly weds, family and friends saying heartfelt speeches, and a DJ/MC entertaining us all. People call this wedding the White Wedding, as it copies what is seen in American culture.

The wedding reception was very fancy!

The wedding reception was very fancy!

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The bride, groom, and wedding party marching back home after tying the knot.

The second day was different than the White Wedding, as it celebrated the traditional IsiZulu wedding ceremony. Family members paraded the bride from her family’s house to the groom’s family’s house. There, the groom presented his family his bride. The bride then offered many gifts to all of the family members (blankets, grass mats, mattresses, pillows, and furniture). Afterwards, there was traditional Zulu dancing, singing, and food.

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The wedding party and the guests dressed in traditional attire.

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My food at the wedding. This food is traditionally served at weddings, funerals, and other major events/ceremonies.

In IsiZulu culture, once the woman is married,tradition is she leaves her family and becomes part of the groom’s family (this reminded me of Western culture, where Women usually replace their last names with their husband’s after they tie the knot). Due to this tradition, the bride’s parents do not attend either wedding ceremonies/receptions. Instead, after the wedding has happened, the wedding party travels back to the bride’s family and reports to her parents on the success of the wedding.

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Giving the family gifts is celebrated publicly. Here, the father was given a grass mat, pillow, and blanket. He is showing his appreciation greatly.

Another thing in IsiZulu culture and marriage is Lobola. Before marriages takes place, the groom must pay the bride’s family for her worth, which is negotiated between the two families. This payment is called, lobola. Lobola takes into account age, educational, work background, if she is a virgin, and so forth. Lobola is usually paid using a currency of 8-12 cows. Each cow costs anywhere between 800-1,000 USD. However, if the groom does not have the cows at hand, he must pay with money and/or buying whatever the family requests that adds to the set price.

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Traditional isiZulu dancing

I enjoyed experiencing the traditional wedding. Many people were dressed in colorful traditional clothing, including Zulu beads, the music and dancing, and sense of togetherness and family was very welcoming. Although the White Wedding was nice and elegantly planned, the traditional wedding was new and exciting for me to see. I’m happy and honored I was able to be part of the celebrations.

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I Need to Pack for 27-Months?!

Congratulations! You’ve just been accepted to volunteer in the Peace Corps for 27-months. However, you may be a little confused as to what to pack for this amazing adventure lying ahead of you. For myself, I was allowed two 50lbs suitcases and a small carry-on. With this information, and a deadline quickly approaching, you may feel a bit overwhelmed. To help you out, here’s a list of things that I brought with me (and a list of things I wish I had/hadn’t brought with me).

What I packed:

(BAG #1)

  • 4 dress shirts
  • 2 polos
  • 6 undershirts
  • 3 casual T-Shirts
  • 2 sweaters
  • 2 sweatshirts
  • 1 jacket
  • 1 fleece
  • 1 rain jacket
  • 4 pairs dress pants
  • Pjs
  • 1 pair of jeans
  • 3 pairs of shorts
  • 5 dress socks
  • 4 casual socks
  • 2 pairs of tennis shoes
  • 2 pairs of dress shoes
  • 1 pair of sandals
  • 1 pair of water shoes
  • 10 pairs of underwear
  • A wristwatch
  • 2 baseball caps
  • Sunglasses
  • A blanket
  • A sleeping bag

(BAG #2)

  • A flashlight
  • 3 Nalgene water bottles
  • A small solar panel to charge a phone/iPod/camera
  • A flashlight
  • A headlamp
  • Zip ties
  • Duct tape
  • Nylon rope
  • A pocket knife
  • A journal
  • Pens
  • A pocket folder
  • A small duffle bag
  • A towel
  • Toiletries (deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrush, etc.)
  • 3 pairs of prescription glasses
  • AA and AAA batteries
  • My computer and charger
  • My camera and charger
  • My iPod and charger
  • My iPad and charger
  • DVDs
  • 2 USB sticks
  • Pictures of family and friends
  • An address book
  • A GRE Study Guide
  • A copy of my credit cards, passport, state I.D., and other important documents

 

Now, here’s what I really should have packed:

(BAG #1)

  • 4 dress shirts
  • 2 polos
  • 6 undershirts
  • 3 casual T-Shirts
  • 2 1 sweater (I haven’t worn a sweater yet, but I’m sure I will once winter approaches)
  • 2 sweatshirts
  • 1 jacket
  • 1 fleece
  • 1 rain jacket
  • 4 3 pairs dress pants (I really only wear 2 pants back and forth. Sometimes I’ll wear three a week to be ‘fancy’)
  • 2 ties
  • Pjs
  • 1 pair of jeans
  • 3 2 pairs of shorts
  • 5 dress socks
  • 4 casual socks
  • 2 1 pair of tennis shoes (less weight, plus I have really only been wearing one pair every day)
  • 2 1 pair of dress shoes (same reasoning as the tennis shoes)
  • 1 pair of sandals
  • 1 pair of water shoes
  • 10 pairs of underwear
  • A wristwatch
  • 2 1 baseball caps (less weight)
  • Sunglasses
  • A blanket
  • A sleeping bag

(BAG #2)

  • A flashlight
  • 3 2 Nalgene water bottles (Although I’ve used all 3 bottles while hiking, I could really do with just 2).
  • A small solar panel to charge a phone/iPod/camera (I have electricity at my site and it is quicker and easier to charge my gadgets overnight than what it is to use the solar panel)
  • A flashlight
  • A headlamp (I rarely use my flashlight the way it is. Any kind of light at night makes you stand out in the village and is like telling people “look at me. Here I am!”
  • Zip ties
  • Duct tape
  • Nylon rope
  • A pocket knife
  • A journal
  • Pens
  • A pocket folder
  • A small duffle bag
  • A towel
  • Toiletries (deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrush, etc.)
  • 3 pairs of prescription glasses
  • AA and AAA batteries (Batteries weighed down my suitcase and are easily found/cheaper to buy here at my site)
  • My computer and charger
  • My camera and charger
  • My iPod and charger
  • My iPad and charger (I haven’t really used my iPad at all. My laptop is just enough)
  • DVDs
  • 2 USB sticks
  • Pictures of family and friends
  • An address book
  • A GRE Study Guide
  • A copy of my credit cards, passport, state I.D., and other important documents

 

 

Lastly, some things I wish I had packed would be:

  • US postage stamps– PCVs going back to the USA always gladly offer to take mail with them to the USA. I wish I had brought US stamps because my letters would arrive to my family and friends quicker. Stamps would have been cheap (and light) things to bring with me and I would save time waiting in long lines at the post offices in SA.
  • Board games/playing cards– Fun, simple to teach, and a great way to interact with your fellow PCVs and children at site.
  • A jump rope– A jump rope would give me something else to do other than run and walk outside in terms of exercise.

 

 

I hope this post gave you some direction on what to/what not to pack for your 27-month adventure. Every PCV’s experience is different and what I might/might not need may be completely different from what you will experience. Just follow your gut and don’t stress out about it (if you forgot something, you can always improvise/live on the edge)!

Rainy Season Brings In Green Ideas

Family and friends, as you are all griping because the northern hemisphere’s cold weather is forcing you to dig out your winter coats, hats and mittens, and heavy-duty boots for winter, I have begun to pull out my raincoat, umbrella, and water shoes (I know, so stylish!). In South Africa, rainy season has arrived. However, I am not complaining; I am so thankful!

During the rainy season (October to December) it rains… a lot. However, it isn’t a daylong type of rain, and the sky isn’t grey and gloomy. Instead, the days are usually sunny and hot up until around 2pm. During the afternoon, giant cumulonimbus clouds roll up and over the mountains and it begins to rain for about an hour or two. Then, the clouds move away, the sun comes back out again, and life continues as it did before.

I think the rainy season is awesome for numerous reasons. First, when the summer heat is about to reach its limit, it begins to get cooler with wind and clouds bringing in the afternoon rain. All of the water taps (public faucets where I get my water to drink, cook, wash clothes and dishes, bathe, etc.) in the village are always full and I haven’t been having any problems searching for water. Also, all the vegetables in my garden have been growing very quickly and everything is so green!

Seeing the success of my garden, and observing many other families in the village beginning to grow gardens has sparked and idea of a project for me to work on with a few interested youth in the village. We are drafting plans to set up a small greenhouse that we will use to grow seedlings and then sell to make a profit. The money used can go towards creating programs at the community center for youth.

In addition to fund programs that involve youth in the community, we plan to help develop the community garden. We hope to raise enough funds from selling the seedlings to buy fencing for the garden. Currently, the community garden is not fenced. Therefore, goats and cows have been going into the garden to eat the crops. The crops grown in the garden go to the orphans and widows/widowers in the community who lost loved ones from HIV/AIDS.

So far, our plans consist of using materials we already have/can find. When I made my personal garden, I used a bunch of plastic bread crates someone was throwing away to make my fencing. After my gardening season, we are going to disassemble the fence and use metal wire and clear plastic to create mini-greenhouses. A pro about this plan is that the greenhouses will be mobile. Since they will be mobile, we can put them in the sun during the day and into a shed at night so criminals can’t steal them and animals can’t get into the plants. Also, when the seedlings are ready to be sold, we will be able to carry the crates around the village and go to our customers and show them our stock, rather than hoping they come to us.

The rainy season has brought in many programming ideas to motivate and empower people to help develop our community. I am so happy for the youth who are stepping up and helping me draft this project (yeah, leadership!). They are so excited to learn how to build greenhouses, start a fundraiser/mini-business, and sell the seedlings, and help develop the community garden to help others. If anyone has suggestions on anything, please comment below. Updates will come.

Notice the bread crate fencing.

Notice the bread crate fencing.

So… This is “Posh” Corps

Time and time again, us Peace Corps Volunteers hear the words, “Every volunteer’s experience is different from the next.” As I reflect on other volunteers within South Africa, I realize that this is very true. In fact, even within hours away from each other, our experiences as volunteers differ drastically. Therefore, it is by no doubt that each PCV’s service is uniquely rewarding, yet challenging.

Serving in South Africa, I have come across hearing, “OH… How is serving in the “Posh” Corps?” At first, I wasn’t sure what was meant by this “posh corps” slang; however, I quickly learned that as Peace Corps Volunteer in South Africa, I am (supposedly) not faced with the challenges and hardships others face in other host-countries. Instead, PCV’s in SA have it easier than others.

It is true that the country of South Africa is one of, if not the, most developed country in the entire African continent. We have bustling cities with malls, hospitals, world-renowned soccer stadiums, paved highways filled with Mercedes, BMWs, Audis, and many other expensive vehicles, and so forth. Yes, I agree, all this posh-i-ness is nice, but does it make my service “easier?”

Underneath what one can see from South Africa’s posh surface, I battle living in a country that rid it’s racist, Apartheid ways only twenty-years ago. I live in a village that a white person has never lived in before. According to white people in town, I speak a language only ‘black’ people speak. Children and adults see and call me first by umlungu (white person). It is very challenging for me to have others see me as an equal or be called my name. Lastly, the social-economic clash in South Africa is real. I live on a stipend that is less than the national unemployment pension given in South Africa. This makes it extremely difficult when I do go into town to buy groceries, because I can only buy groceries. The bustle between the restaurants, stores, and shopping malls just tease me, because I cannot afford this kind of living.

SO… This is “posh” corps. For myself, healing Apartheid’s scars and living below the poverty line is nothing posh at all. We must all remember that what we see on the surface isn’t what lies deeper. Every PCV’s service is different. We are all faced with our own challenges and rewards. Instead of comparing ourselves to one another like our service is a competition, let’s support each other and empower one another to do their best, keeping one foot forward.

At the Base of the Mountain

It’s a cold, windy, foggy, and misty day here, so what can I do with my time staying inside but write a well-overdue blog post? I would consider myself (by now), settled into my site.I arrived to my site on about a month ago.

Other than today, I live under a crystal clear, bright blue sky with rolling hills and mountains in the distance. All around me, there are grassy fields that hide much wildlife that is unfamiliar to me, such as snakes, monkeys, springboks, wild bores, and porcupines. Also, within the grassy fields there are short, broad-branched trees that are popular for herds of cows and goats to sit under during the hot days. Does this description remind you of Disney’s film, The Lion King?

The school I am volunteering for is approximately a 30-minute walk on a dirt path from my house. Unless it is or has rained, the 30-minute walk isn’t too bad, besides the steep slope near my school (my school’s on the base of a mountain). On my walks to and from school, I am usually accompanied by anywhere between three to twelve students. Their curiosity drives quality conversation about life in South Africa and my life in America. When there’s a lack of conversation, we sing songs.

At school, students (K-12 grade) wear red and white uniforms. I like the uniforms because students look prepared and ready to learn. I asked some learners about their opinions on the uniforms and their responses varied. Many learners favored the uniforms, but as more upper grade learners chimed in, the feelings became more mixed. There are about 12 teachers and a principal. School assembly begins at 7:15 and the school day ends at 2:30.

Although the principal usually leads assembly with a prayer, hymns, and announcements, I have been able to help the principal in leading assembly. My role in assembly has been incorporating five learners from a selected grade to perform a prepared reading, role-play, or poem each day, exposing learners to public speaking and more English. So far, everyone has really enjoyed the contribution to assembly and there is one 10th grader who is really passionate for performing his own written poetry!

Since I have arrived in the middle of term 3, I haven’t been teaching. Instead, I have been observing classroom teachers teach, cleaning out supply closets, and starting to create a school library. One day, while cleaning a supply closet, I found boxes of unused children’s, non-fiction, and young adult chapter books. I organized these books into non-fiction and fiction books and alphabetical order. From there, I numbered each book and recorded them into a notebook. There were over 500 books, which will make a good start to the school’s library. Besides books, I found science materials, many posters, and a lot of dust. In the future, I will be teaching 4-7 grade English (as a foreign language) and 4th grade math. I’m very excited to begin teaching!

In other news, on Monday, I have a meeting to present a behavior management program to the principal and teachers. This behavior management program is called Positive Behavior Intervention and Support, or PBIS. Currently, the principal and teachers are very stressed and inconsistent with behavior management within their classrooms and the school. I have observed students confused on what are proper behaviors, as well as a negative learning environment. From implementing PBIS, I hope to train teachers and model examples on how they can enforce/reinforce positive behaviors, form uniformed, understood student expectations, and create a more positive learning environment. I understand that change can be difficult, but I’m hoping my principal and teachers are on board with my proposal.

My Peace Corps Application Process

I cannot believe that it was last summer when I sat down and began filling out the Peace Corps application. I remember the online application portion (checking the appropriate questions, writing two essays, and updating my resume) took over three weeks to complete! That process was long and seemed never ending, but I submitted it at the end of August. Soon after, I received a phone call from the PC Mid-West headquarters in Chicago requesting an interview time. Lastly, I had an interview via Skype and was referred as a fit candidate to PC’s D.C. placement team!

Soon after my interview, which was in October, I received a background check and fingerprint I.D. card to complete. I was very excited to receive these documents because it meant my application was moving forward in the line of being assigned to a country.

Once January arrived, I was getting really antsy to hear from the Peace Corps office. However, towards the end of January, I received an invitation email to join PCSA: 30, Peace Corps South Africa! I was so excited to hear from the placement team and receive knowledge of the country I will be serving. Actually, because there was such little communication during August until this time, the feeling felt surreal. Later that day, I drove home and spent the entire night reading the invitation booklet, my assignment details, and searching blogs for fellow volunteers in South Africa, education volunteers, and the PC in general. Then, the feeling of “this is actually happening” set in… I am going to be a teacher in South Africa!

After I accepted my invitation, I was given a pile of medical forms to complete (including vaccinations, physical, dental record and x-rays, lab work, etc.). This was probably the most strenuous aspect of the application process. All I have to say is make sure to schedule your appointments ASAP, don’t schedule everything for one day (stressful… and an entire day in the clinic), it’s going to cost you a pretty penny (although the PC does reimburse you for some costs), stay organized with the piles of paperwork that goes along with this process, and lastly, make sure your doctors fill out and sign all of the paperwork.

After all the medical paperwork is turned in, along with your passport, visa, and other paperwork the PC may request, you are pretty much set. After this process was finished for me, I focused on getting things I might have needed for South Africa, researched and read more about South Africa/Peace Corps, attended some local PC meetings, and spent time with friends and family.

The PC application process was long and time consuming, but if you really want to volunteer, you will stick to it. I’m so happy to have gotten through the application process and am so eager to begin volunteering in South Africa! I already have met some amazing people from local PC meetings in Milwaukee and I am so excited for the adventures that are ahead of me.

 

*Note: Although the application process is very independent, the technical staff was amazing. If I ever had a question or concern about my application/paperwork, I would send an email to the PC staff and receive an email in a short time.